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  1. Having a timeline is conducive to eventually being able to do some processing, but I can see how it would be especially difficult when you've had to distance everything from it's context in order to survive. Are there nice things you can do for yourself? This sounds like very hard work.
  2. It's always the adults responsibility to keep children safe, and not hurt them. If an adult needs help it is their responsible to get help, instead of making the choice to hurt a child. Perpetrators can be very, very good at mixing up messages and trying to convince children that it is their fault, often to increase shame and stop the child telling a safe person. I'm sorry you're having that confusion because it can be a yucky feeling. Take care of yourself.
  3. I felt quite fragile after IP. I'm sorry you needed it but I'm also glad that you found a trauma-informed place to go.
  4. I don't have any ideas to offer, but this is such a cool idea!!
  5. Congrats!
  6. I'm happy to hear that Baboo is hungry. I'm learning it's a good indicator of health for the husbandmen although I don't imagine anybody not being hungry with your cooking.
  7. It can be so hard to sit through people lecturing on topics when we have so much first hand experience. I left a few lectures triggered. I hope your work can help you keep working, if that's what you want.
  8. I hope Baboo does well on his new med and doesn't have any side effects. Thinking of you both.
  9. I'm glad you made it through and you had your ribbon.
  10. I've disabled adblock.
  11. You forgot the DOI. Heh just kidding, any post grad student feels your pain. It will end, eventually.
  12. I often listen to podcasts while I go to sleep. It helps a lot.
  13. Having to change doctors sucks I hope you're able to figure something out.
  14. Yum, eggplant. I might have asked this before but do you salt your eggplant before cooking it? I've read that it makes it less bitter but I haven't really noticed.
  15. Heh just one block up from me is delicious Indian, Italian, Thai, Taiwanese... don't get into bad habits! You're managing to cook a lot despite all that moving. I'm glad you can at least walk at night. Is it a leafy street?