Aquais94

Is this Complex PTSD or BPD.

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Hi, I was questioning if I might have Complex PTSD or Borderline Personality Disorder.

I'll start out about my life. I was born sensitive and raised by helicopter parents (In which I am now 22 years old). I had a good, disoriented early childhood, but everytime that I did something wrong, I would get spank, yell, threatened or shouted. My father has ADHD, and dropped out in Grade 7 and My mother has MS, GAD, and Depression, dropped out in Grade 11, (but got her GED 25 years later). My father was nice, and took me out for a drive, but when I did something wrong, I would get yelled, then get a smack bottom, but sometimes I would get a head smack by my father. But his anger was so bad that I ended up detach from my father then I always went with my mother, because she is calm, and nice. Luckily my father went to work everyday while my mother takes care of me and my sister. When I was 2, I was diagnosed with PDD-NOS (in nowadays, I believed that I was misdiagnosed). At that time, my parents didn't know about it. But now they know it. Sometimes I get spanked by my mother when I did something wrong.

However, when I was in daycare, everytime I did something wrong, they would put me into time out and raise their voice, in which I was feeling scared that I am going to be spanked like my parents did, but they didn't, even throughout the years in daycare. But time outs was traumatizing. But one time, when I was 5, they took us to the soccer field, but one time, I must of been acting out inappropriately, and got put into time out into the bench with a daycare worker, holding my hand, and for few minutes, she slightly pinched my hand, close to my thumb. But the daycare workers are nice, but due to being a highly sensitive person, when I was put into time out for being naughty, Sometimes I was feeling hyper vigilant that I am scared that they would spank me. 

I remembered that when I was 4, they took the children to the Shopping Mall, and one kid from daycare bought a piece of paper towel, then I was like, I might do the same thing, then when they went to another store, I was in the shopping cart and as they go idle to idle, I quickly snatched a bag of smarties, then they laugh, when they got out of the store, they took the bag of smarties away in which It traumatized me (in which I developed kleptophobia and worsen anxiety later in life.). 

When I was being babysat by a teenager, sometimes I would be put into timeouts if i did something wrong, in which I had a same feeling as I was in daycare that I am scared that I would be spanked. But he is a nice person by the way. In which I remembered after acting out in store, they took me back to his house and put me into time out right afterwards, then they let me go then two hours later, I was put into time out again. 

When I was 6, I started Kindergarten, my biggest fear is getting disciplined by teachers and headmaster because I don't want to hear their raised voice in which it would result another psychological injury. But by the age of 7, I was sent to the headmaster's office few times. One time, that I remembered is that I refused to go outside in which I got forced to go outside, then after the bell rang, I was sent to his office and I was crying as he was raising his voice, I refused to look at his eye, resulting an avoidance of looking at him.

When I was 7, I witnessed my brother was having an accident in his undergarment, in which I witnessed that my mother told him that if he doesn't use the toilet, he would be put back in nappies, in which she showed the nappy to him and It traumatized me, in which at the same day, my emotions and my brain couldn't take it anymore. The next day, I was watching a VHS tape, showing a woman discipling at them, in which I developed intrusive memories while daydreaming, that I'm scared that the woman on TV would put a nappy on me, even people in real life discipling at me, I had intrusive thoughts.

*You may seem like a typical childhood, but in my own perception, I was hurt.  

Over the next few months, I developed OCD-Like symptoms, but while having rituals, I was having distressing images in my head that is related to the trauma. After few years that intrusive thoughts about being put in nappies for misbehaving had disappeared. Even I had an intrusive thoughts on having a wrong character on a wrong TV Show and scared that the main character would get mad at me. It haunted me in which It disappeared by the age of 14.  

Throughout my late childhood years, My father continued to use corporal punishments, but he finally stopped at the age of 13, At the time, I was making a cuckoo noise at my brother and my father got snapped in which he smacked me in the head and yelled at me, resulting myself crying. but still threatened me with spanking.

I used to cry almost everyday in elementary school. Few times, my mother would tell me if I kept crying in school, she would treat me like a baby and put in nappies in which it resulted me having a mild flashback.

My mentally ill cousin used to wrestle me when I was 4, in which he covered me to suffocate for few seconds, in which it happened almost few times, but it was so bad that when I was 9, he got involved with the police telling him to stop. Then he switched from wrestling to time outs for no reasons, from the age of 9 to 13, he would put me into time outs for few minutes, sometimes he would keep going and would torture me emotionally and psychologically. When I was 12, I was going to get my telescope that it was close to the staircase, and as I attempted to grab it, it fell downstairs and off from the empty railings and fell into his son in which I was an accident and was put into time out. 

When I was 13, every time my mother is gone, I would do something that I did not do, and he would put me into time out for no reasons, in which I was sent to the room, and the door has a lock, and I was scared that he would lock me and leave me to starve. One time, he took out a case and took out a razor blade, telling me that he would cut my  tongue out, etc (due to dissociation that I could not remember the rest of my traumatic memory). He called me a pussy once, he tortured me by making a noise (in which I had Misophonia) that sets me off into a rage (in which by grade 6, one student spread gossips that I don't like certain noise and they all picked at me, I told my vice principal and got after them twice, but throughout the years, they were picking at me, (not just noise, other things that upsets me) I ended up defending against them with attempted violence and cussing and I got into trouble and told me that I was lying (due to lack of knowledge of Misophonia)), and he made me to do push-ups and told me that my mother is gone forever. 

Thankfully, my mother had enough and hauled me, my brother and my sister out of his place and went to my grandparent's house, I continue having intrusive thoughts and distressing memories of the trauma for 2 years including flashbacks, I had nightmares few times. My cousin began to take drugs, got drunk and destroyed few walls at my Grandmother's house where I was psychologically and emotionally abused, in which he got kicked out by my mother and went with his girlfriend, broke up few times, then when I was 18, I told him to get out (due to trauma), and by 19, he came to my house

By Grade 10, i was sent to the learning center (special education) in which I don't belong to that my IPP English Teacher found out that I was at the Learning Center (usually at lunch), but in the first day, I was on the computer with the Assistance standing back against me, in which it was hard on me, then I left the place and went to the desk crying, then the Assistance sat down next to me and touched me with her finger onto my sides of my abdomen, in which I believed that she was treating me like a baby.

I went to their outings and it went well until one day, they took us to eat, and I thought I was going to have a big meal until I found out that they are ordering from the Children's Menu (due to the result of the childhood trauma, I grew up too fast and stopped playing toys at 11.) I attempted to refused to eat the children's menu, and after that incident, I chose not to go with them ever again. One of the fellow with moderate autism was making a noise that triggered my Misophonia, i told him to stop, and the Assistant told me that he's allowed to do it. 

Few weeks later, my IPP English teacher told me that I don't belong to that Learning Center. Then I finally rebelled against the Assistances at the Learning Center, by telling that I am going out to the Cafeteria, because I was left out from my old friends, and they said, "NO, YOU'RE NOT ALLOWED TO GO OUT TO THE CAFETERIA!" and I was crying so bad and told them "I DON'T BELONG IN THERE!" after a hour of rebelling, they told my IPP English teacher and she told them that I do not belong to that Learning Center in which I won the fight and told me that I will be out in one week. One week later, I was finally set free! (a happy ending for that part)

But however I was doing my dance project, and my assistance took me into the Learning Center to do it rather than their classroom in which I rebelled for once again. 

But by Grade 11 (17-18 years old), they finally shut up. But I began to rebel against my mother due to my undiagnosed CPTSD (in which the intrusive thoughts and distressing images has morphed into a full-blown PTSD Symptoms), and every word that she said has traumatized me and made my condition worse. They even threatened me to turn around and go home instead of my friend's house, she mistreated me once by treating me like a 5 year old child. And also threatened me to take my stuff back. In which it resulted me of having violent flashbacks from it. I began to fantasize revenge via violence against the perpetrator while having a flashback including causing me to scream my lungs out of anger in which the flashbacks went away).

My parents was separated for few months. I was happy about it, but however when they are arguing, it increases my hyper vigilance that I am scared that my father would go upstairs and break my stuff, due to his violent anger issues resulting from dropping out from Secondary School and his ADHD. But thank goodness that I did not have a flashbacks but intrusive thoughts. But one week before christmas, my father went in her house with his baseball bat, went upstairs and start breaking the railings in which I thought that he was killing my mother and I thought that he said, DIE! DIE! DIE! but it didn't and I left the house for my safety and I was shaking. I went back in the house and went upstairs to my bedroom and crouched myself in a fetal position, fearing for my own safety, but a hour later, my father was calm and watched TV with my mother. (In which it resulted in having violent flashbacks and revenge fantasies)

Few months later, my mother told me to stay with my father every weekend and I rebelled against her because of the past of what he has done to me. But I did spent a weekend but I did not talk to him of that much by staying in the basement for the rest of the weekend. But one day, my father told me that I am going to spend few nights resulting in a full-range rebellion. He took me to the barbershop as I was letting my hair grow long. And shaved it off in which I told my father that I am going to reshaving it off because I don't want to be like him. 

I rebelled at him many times and I have a thoughts of running away from him because I don't want to be with him and for my own safety. I did researched at school about how to run away from them. But I did not run away due to anxiety. That incident by staying with my father has resulted of having flashbacks and revenge fantasies. 

After I finally went back to my mother, It took me 2 weeks before I finally re-shaved my head. (Happy Ending)

I couldn't handle with her arguments (mostly in the car) and it made my symptoms worse.

Few months prior to Graduation, I was having an anxiety attack while riding a bike, then when I got off from the bike at the park, I was feeling dizzy and about to pass out, I drank a bottle of water. I went to the park and sat down on the bench to stop the dizziness, then I told the strangers the story about what happened and told them that I was drinking (in which I forgot to say water), resulting them to think I am suspicious of being drunk, then I sat onto another bench and start singing next to the lady and she left the seat causing anxiety, then I told them about my favorite singer then I sat on the empty bench, then all of the sudden, the police came and told me to get up as they want to talk to me, even though I had no friends at that time, and I told them, "There's something wrong?" and they said, "You were drinking, picking up children and crazy talking"  so I told the Police that I wasn't drinking alcohol but the water bottle and I did gave them evidence with my water bottle, then he smelt it and he was like, ok. Then I told them that I wasn't picking on children or even touch them and I told them that I wasn't doing crazy talking. Then I asked him a question, "Are you going to taser me or arrest me" and they said, no, then he asked me why am I in this park, then I told them that I have no friends, then they redirected me to a center to find friends in my age, but I refused to go there due to anxiety. Then I told them, Am I going to be on the Criminal Record? and they told me, "No, everything is cleared" then they left. I was upset and having anxiety attack, in which I went home and told my mother on the phone and she almost going to tell the police, about it, but I told her no, do not call them, because it would make it worse. (Due to fear of being traumatized even more). I spoke to my then-girlfriend on the phone about it. Then the next day, she told me that I am in the Criminal Record but her uncle is a police officer, so he saw it and called the main headquarters and told them about it and they cleared my Criminal Record because it was a false accusation. But I disbelieved her. It resulted in increase of hyper vigilance level, Intrusive thoughts and memory, worsening anxiety, locked myself in my bedroom for few weeks and refuse to leave the house for 2 months, due to fear of police officers that I am scared that they would tell me to go home, also developed Social Anxiety as a long-term consequences. Over a month and the half, they announced that they would check our pockets before going to safe grad party, in which I was anxious that they would reject me due to the incident, but it got eased right after the security check and went to the safe grad party. (But almost 4 years later, My counselor brought me in to speak with the police officer to overcome the fear, and he clarified that I am not on the Criminal Record and explained the process of how it works, in which my anxiety levels dropped, but only 15%). 

After Graduation, I returned as an undergrad, I had an assistance for a month, before the resource teacher told me that I do not need her anymore, and I celebrated. But the worst part is that I got picked on by other people and told the principal on them, but It was hard to described due to pieces of the memory of the traumatic event. After a month of suffering, They denied that I was picked on and my mother told me that I was lying due to lack of evidence. (resulted in worsening of trauma symptoms)

Since growing up I cannot go outside of the neighborhood without a friend, and I began to rebel against her, and I managed to seek counseling and I told her every story that my mother was overprotective. Also I dragged her to her office twice then she tone it down. It took me a year before she finally set me free. Resulting in a huge Facebook party. (But before she set me free, it resulted in worsening trauma symptoms).

I began to hide my negative stories to people because I feared that they would tell on her and she would go against me and telling me that I was lying but I was telling the truth. This happens a year before the denial of me being bullied, I told a stranger about what happened, even in the past, then she called her, and I got into trouble and threatened to ground me as I was lying but I was telling the truth in which I was unaware that she was gas lighting me.

When arguing in the car, she often puts me down, calls me a spoiled brat, and she threatens me to put into a group home in which I ended up threatening her with suicide, but I don't attempt it, I used that when I am angry and just to leave me alone. I take Klonopin for my Anxiety and she told me that the meds are not working. (In which It resulting in having violent flashbacks, intrusive memories and thoughts and revenge fantasies in which it never went way, especially certain lyrics triggered my flashback.)

And last year, I finally spit it out by telling her that I don't like her, due to her obnoxious behavior. In which it resulted into a huge hurtful arguments and worsened my symptoms. 

As of the result of her, I ended up packing my bags and stay with my sister who is very nice to me and quiet. I helped her a lot and I believed that it was a very happy family. I cut-off contact with my mother for 4 months except for few visitations. Every time that I came to her house, she begs me to come home, but I refused. 

I blocked her from my phone and I had a happy life, but I went to college at the same year, due to having undiagnosed CPTSD Symptoms, I ended up missing few days from school, being late for class, and almost had a poor performance due to suffering from trauma. Thankfully, my instructor referred me to see the counselor and I told her every stories that I had in my life. And I still see her as of now where she referred me to see the psychiatrist to get a diagnosis as I suspected that I am suffering from Complex PTSD, she invited to her cooking class and workshop sessions. 

Every time that I told her, she told me that I misunderstood from the past, and sometimes lying, but I was telling the truth, even in the car when she argues at me, she told me that I was misunderstanding in which I was so upset and I questioned that if I have Dissociation Symptoms or she was gas lighting me, so I chose to believe that she was gas lighting.

After being set free from my mother, I was in fear, having hyper vigilance episode, and sometimes if I wear certain clothes including a Military trousers and combat boots in public, I became hyper vigilant and I was scared that the police will come, or entering to the building, I feared of what people might think of me based on my looks and behavior and scared that they would report to me (she told me that it's a sign of social anxiety even though I have Generalized Anxiety Disorder).

After the stage fright 2 months ago, I took a bus home, I told the stranger that I was having a stage fright due to strained tenor notes (i do very well in practice), but the man told me to sing in my normal voice (in which I had a flashback of when I was trying to imitate other singer's voice, my mother forced me to sing in my own voice, and also forced to wear what she want me to wear before I gained my freedom in appearance and my own decision.) and I told him that I have a good knowledge of how singing works, but he has a lack of knowledge of how singing works (chest, mixed, and head voice) and I think he called me an a**hole, and I told him that I have PTSD and he told me to smoke pot, in which it resulted in a flashbacks, revenge fantasies and having intrusive thoughts and memories. I had a revenge fantasies during flashbacks that I could push him out from the bus and call him a r*tard. I still have the flashbacks as of now.  

Due to being bullied, I was growing my hair long, and they called me "Sissyface" and it was so bad that I shaved my head off and wore sunglasses. But the happy ending is that I disappeared from public and went to another town to spend the rest of the summer in which it turned out a good one, then I changed my appearance drastically, then no one including the bullies have noticed me at all in which, it was a happy ending.  

If I have traumatic bad days, I would go to my bedroom and have a nap for 2 hours, then I wake up and pretend that It is a new day. In which I begin to cry hysterically that I love that day better than the last one.  

After all of these years that I been through, I have thousands of Mental Scars in my brain. I still have flashbacks, hyper vigilance, distressing memories, intrusive thoughts and memories, violent revenge fantasies, severe anxiety, multiple phobias, excessive seeking help, impulsivity (shaving my head to the skin everyday, always on the go and excessive spending sprees), avoidance behavior if hyper vigilance is worsening, avoiding triggers, bits of pieces of memory of the traumatic event, maladaptive daydreaming, excessive crying (after a flashback is over), mild dissociation, mind wandering, fear that I am re-experiencing trauma, blank stare (when being traumatized) social isolation, growing up too fast, and thoughts of running away. I only get mild nightmares related to the trauma, once in a while, but mostly 95% of the time, I have good dreams, (i use it to escape from trauma). I tend to get traumatized more easily when something is bad. When I get yelled at, raising their voice, being criticized, and disciplined, It triggers flashbacks and undiagnosed Complex PTSD attacks causing re-traumatization and psychological shock that could lead to having a future flashback, distressing memories, revenge fantasies, intrusive thoughts and memories of the recent traumatic event, but when telling the counselor, I cannot remember some parts of the trauma.

The only symptoms that I don't have is, Self-harming, Nightmares and difficulty sleeping (except If I was having a flashback, in which it lasts from 1 to 3 hours then crying for an extra 1 hour after a flashback)

I wear sunglasses to hide myself from the public and to ease anxiety attacks in which without wearing it, I could become dizzy, even can lead to panic attacks and I could possibly faint (due to suffering from an anxiety disorder). 

Sometimes, I would write a brutal lyrics on Facebook based on my trauma. 

Would you tell me if i am suffering from an undiagnosed Borderline or Complex PTSD?

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1 hour ago, Aquais94 said:

Would you tell me if i am suffering from an undiagnosed Borderline or Complex PTSD?

It is hard to say what you are suffering from, and it sounds very frustrating to be dealing with.  I'm sorry you have been through all you have.

I would highly suggest finding a psychiatrist (pdoc) (qualified professional) who can evaluate you, and who can help explain more of what is going on to you.

There might also be med/s out there that could help you too.  But you'd need to find a psychiatrist to better help you with that.

Also, want say welcome to CB!

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Hello, and welcome!

That said, we're not able to diagnose here, which the poll sort of encourages. No one should be practising medicine on the internet, really. Besides, cptsd isn't even in the dsm5, so you cannot officially be diagnosed with it for insurance purposes (which is the most important part of a diagnosis). The other very important part of a diagnosis is to provide relief for symptoms, and in that part the name of it matters less than the answer to the question 'is your treatment effective?' for which you might need a diagnosis.

The other fun fact about BPD is that there is a movement to retire that name and turn it into cptsd, straight up. That failed for the current iteration of the dsm, but it might happen in the future. So trying to decide between the two doesn't really matter, as much as 'is your treatment effective?'

 

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12 hours ago, melissaw72 said:

It is hard to say what you are suffering from, and it sounds very frustrating to be dealing with.  I'm sorry you have been through all you have.

I would highly suggest finding a psychiatrist (pdoc) (qualified professional) who can evaluate you, and who can help explain more of what is going on to you.

There might also be med/s out there that could help you too.  But you'd need to find a psychiatrist to better help you with that.

Also, want say welcome to CB!

I am currently trying to get a psychiatrist, in which I am seeing in June for consultation. Because I had enough of having flashbacks, distressing images, intrusive thoughts and memories out of nowhere including some triggers. Especially myself as a Highly Sensitive Person. 

When I was writing my problems down, It was upsetting including I had a minor flashbacks as well. As I tend to hide my problems from the public due to fear of being shamed and risk of being re-traumatized that can cause more mental scars and gas lighting from my mother if the stranger knows my mother. 

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44 minutes ago, Aquais94 said:

I am currently trying to get a psychiatrist, in which I am seeing in June for consultation. Because I had enough of having flashbacks, distressing images, intrusive thoughts and memories out of nowhere including some triggers. Especially myself as a Highly Sensitive Person. 

When I was writing my problems down, It was upsetting including I had a minor flashbacks as well. As I tend to hide my problems from the public due to fear of being shamed and risk of being re-traumatized that can cause more mental scars and gas lighting from my mother if the stranger knows my mother. 

I'm glad you are trying to get to a psychiatrist (pdoc).  June is almost 3 months away though ... is there any way you can get an earlier appt (cancellation list)?  What you are going through sounds hard to deal with, from what you write.

Or maybe in the meantime, until June, could you start seeing a therapist (tdoc)?

That might be a really helpful thing to do (see a tdoc).  There are all different kinds, but the kind that helped me was a talk therapist.  I had her for 9 years and she went through a lot with me.  She was extremely helpful and I don't not know what I would have done without her.

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56 minutes ago, melissaw72 said:

I'm glad you are trying to get to a psychiatrist (pdoc).  June is almost 3 months away though ... is there any way you can get an earlier appt (cancellation list)?  What you are going through sounds hard to deal with, from what you write.

Or maybe in the meantime, until June, could you start seeing a therapist (tdoc)?

That might be a really helpful thing to do (see a tdoc).  There are all different kinds, but the kind that helped me was a talk therapist.  I had her for 9 years and she went through a lot with me.  She was extremely helpful and I don't not know what I would have done without her.

Actually, I am currently have a counselor, and I see her every week including a workshop in the next day. I told her every traumatic experiences that I've went through. 

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16 minutes ago, Aquais94 said:

Actually, I am currently have a counselor, and I see her every week including a workshop in the next day. I told her every traumatic experiences that I've went through. 

I'm glad you have someone to talk to about everything.  I find that helped me out the most, just having someone to listen to me and be "on my side" about things.  It sucks feeling alone with all this shit going on in your life with no outlet, no one to talk to about it all.

It relieved a lot of stress for me.

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19 minutes ago, melissaw72 said:

I'm glad you have someone to talk to about everything.  I find that helped me out the most, just having someone to listen to me and be "on my side" about things.  It sucks feeling alone with all this shit going on in your life with no outlet, no one to talk to about it all.

It relieved a lot of stress for me.

I always prefer to be alone to ease undiagnosed Complex PTSD symptoms, including dissociation (drifting into my own world, and sometimes in a daze due to focusing too much on a trauma than in reality). And I just had another psychological injury on my mother of where she reminded to me and said, "LIGHT FEET! due to walking downstairs very hard (in which it is normal for me) :angry: in which it triggered Flashback and I told her, "DO NOT REMIND ME EVER AGAIN!" and my parents flipped in which right now I am crying and having a minor emotional flashbacks of being disciplined as a child and prefer to be alone from anyone. Usually after few hours from the incident, I get flashbacks from the recent incident in which it cause me to bottle up my anger, having revenge violent fantasies and distressing images. After the flashbacks and that is over, I burst into tears for an hour (depending how severe it is) then I get tired and exhausted including feeling calm while dissociating.

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I'm sorry you are going through that. 

Sometimes I prefer to be alone too, to gather my thoughts and de-stress. I know it is more than that for you though. 

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1 minute ago, melissaw72 said:

I'm sorry you are going through that. 

Sometimes I prefer to be alone too, to gather my thoughts and de-stress. I know it is more than that for you though. 

I tend to shut myself in while having a mental shock and listen to the saddest music to induce crying and self-soothing by imaginative friends even picturing that I am in the better place. 

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@Aquais94

Would you please remove your poll from this thread so we don't have to lock the thread? Thanks in advance.

You might find reading the book Trauma and Recovery by Judith Herman to be helpful if you haven't already.

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5 minutes ago, Wooster said:

@Aquais94

Would you please remove your poll from this thread so we don't have to lock the thread? Thanks in advance.

You might find reading the book Trauma and Recovery by Judith Herman to be helpful if you haven't already.

ok, I apologize for posting a poll as I didn't notice. I will not do that again in the future. Thanks

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Gracias.

It's not really that it was a poll itself. It was the specific question  asking people to posit whether you have BPD or C-PTSD.

For all intents and purposes there's really very little difference in the two with regard to symptoms and etiology (though not always with etiology). The crappy differences are that a) BPD carries a ton more stigma, b) C-PTSD isn't yet a "legit" diagnosis, specifically meaning "not in the DSM 5" and c) C-PTSD considered a highly "political" diagnosis because it's squarely naming the effects of prolonged exposure to trauma, especially childhood abuse and neglect as the cause which leads to "b" (not yet a 'legit' diagnosis).

If you're into books, you might also really like The Body Keeps the Score by Bessel VanDerKolk.

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One of the things I notice about skimming all that you've written out is how you change time between past and present. You talk about thing in the past with words that sound like they're happening now. To me, that can often be an indicator of "unprocessed" trauma: the past doesn't stay in the past and it's hard to tell coherent stories with beginning, middle, end about it.

Does that sound like what you experience?

 

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2 minutes ago, Wooster said:

Gracias.

It's not really that it was a poll itself. It was the specific question  asking people to posit whether you have BPD or C-PTSD.

For all intents and purposes there's really very little difference in the two with regard to symptoms and etiology (though not always with etiology). The crappy differences are that a) BPD carries a ton more stigma, b) C-PTSD isn't yet a "legit" diagnosis, specifically meaning "not in the DSM 5" and c) C-PTSD considered a highly "political" diagnosis because it's squarely naming the effects of prolonged exposure to trauma, especially childhood abuse and neglect as the cause which leads to "b" (not yet a 'legit' diagnosis).

If you're into books, you might also really like The Body Keeps the Score by Bessel VanDerKolk.

I am just confused based on my biography that I wrote on this thread, In which I don't know if this in which I am going through since childhood in which I did stated that I began showing symptom from the age of 7 and onwards a sign of C-PTSD or something else? Because I am seeing my psychiatrist for the very first time in June and I'm going though this to my psychiatrist as well. 

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7 minutes ago, Wooster said:

Gracias.

It's not really that it was a poll itself. It was the specific question  asking people to posit whether you have BPD or C-PTSD.

For all intents and purposes there's really very little difference in the two with regard to symptoms and etiology (though not always with etiology). The crappy differences are that a) BPD carries a ton more stigma, b) C-PTSD isn't yet a "legit" diagnosis, specifically meaning "not in the DSM 5" and c) C-PTSD considered a highly "political" diagnosis because it's squarely naming the effects of prolonged exposure to trauma, especially childhood abuse and neglect as the cause which leads to "b" (not yet a 'legit' diagnosis).

If you're into books, you might also really like The Body Keeps the Score by Bessel VanDerKolk.

Which is as I'd mentioned above.

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2 minutes ago, Wooster said:

One of the things I notice about skimming all that you've written out is how you change time between past and present. You talk about thing in the past with words that sound like they're happening now. To me, that can often be an indicator of "unprocessed" trauma: the past doesn't stay in the past and it's hard to tell coherent stories with beginning, middle, end about it.

Does that sound like what you experience?

 

I was talking about my past traumas, but I put (Resulting in as consequences that how it affected me after the trauma and the symptoms that I have right now as a result of the traumatic event that happened in the past)

@WinterRosie I apologized for the grammar issues.

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@WinterRosie Sorry, wrong person, I was talking to @Wooster please forgive me for talking to the wrong person, because I'm currently experiencing exhaustion and my brain was fogged due to the flashback that I had recently. I'll talk to you when the post-flashbacks episode goes away as my mind will clear up. Sorry for causing you any trouble.  

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No need to apologize at all. We're all fuckin' nuts here. :D

 

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