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FairyBelle

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About FairyBelle

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    Southern Blue Belle

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    female
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    Planet Earth
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    Art, photography, dance, music, animals, butterflies, fairies.

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  1. FairyBelle

    Fairies in the wind.

    My life on display. Don't mind me, I just love photography. ❤️
  2. I love you, my Deery Lou 💝

  3. Breakfast: check ✔️ Eggs. Dance exercises: done  ✔️Shower and morning hygiene routine: completed ✔️Listening to Jolie ring her bell and scurry around: priceless ❤️🐭 Now just waiting for my mom to get home so we can go to the hairdresser's and then go out to take pictures together. 😊

  4. Being autistic and a sexual assault survivor, I see a lot of different points of view. I've given the creepy stares, and I've gotten them. There's a point where people are held accountable for their actions no matter what, even in the case of autism. (This I would know, since being autistic did not get me out of a few wrong things I've done in my life.) I would hope that appropriate intervention is given these days, so that people with autism know at least enough boundaries to be able to stay out of trouble, and harm's way. I've been fortunate enough to have people looking out for me in my life, to teach what is appropriate and what isn't. Some days I do forget though. I think the biggest issue is when do people have to take the fall (responsibility, blame) for their actions, despite their disability. And I really do see it as it depends upon the severity and nature of the autism, and perhaps a conversation with the autistic individual and family members of such individual, should something like that happen, and giving them the right and benefit of being able to speak for themselves and defend themselves with an advocate present. (As a side note, odd or "creepy" looks are one thing, full on sexual assault is different, and spreading it over social media is never a kind thing to do to anyone, period. That's your personal business, and honestly, it may be best to keep it as such.) I know my opinion may be a little bit of an unpopular one, but it is just that, an opinion.
  5. I was given a diagnosis as a teenager. The only thing that accomplished was allowing me to have an educational assistant in school. I didn't have any other support. I lived in a residential treatment center at that time, for my Bipolar disorder and other strange behaviors. AKA I was too much to handle at home, so I was placed in res for observation and to find out what was really going on with me psychologically, as no doctor I'd seen since the age of 14 had been able to figure that out yet. My diagnosis seemed to be, and really still is, just purely "educational". That's at least how I see it. It did not gain me any services, support, etc. It was just knowledge for my family and I to have, so that we all could best deal with it in the ways we were capable of. Dealing with it to me just means being aware of it, dealing with it to family means telling me to not act in certain ways in public, or even at home, because it's annoying or upsetting to them. To me, diagnosis in my childhood meant nothing, other than everyone knowing what they were in for, for the rest of my life. Thank you Dr. H... Ugh. I do suppose though that diagnosis as an adult would have made my depression and feelings of being so isolated, strange, and "wrong" worse.
  6. Angeni and I did end up getting married, and my wife really is not as bad with my autistic symptoms as she's written about here. She is a good, sweet, kind person who loses sight of some things in life from time to time. My meltdowns do get a lot for anyone to handle, a lot of my issues are that of the sensory nature. Sensory input overload is my downfall. I do have a hard time with identifying my emotions as well, and then handling them. My facial expressions are inappropriate, my tone is monotonous or inappropriate, I can be hurtful without meaning to be so, I seem to be rude without realizing or meaning to do so either. I was diagnosed with Asperger's at 17, as well as Bipolar disorder. I personally have not been the most kind support to Angeni in the past, and for that, I owe her an apology. I understand why she came to this section of CB to get advice on my autistic behaviours. For the majority of my life, they have presented as a challenge to anyone who is close with me, to get me to open myself to others and their feelings. I really do lack empathy and the ability to put myself into another individual's position or situation. I can't imagine their positions for myself. I do lack imagination to an extent, and that "theory of mind". Some of these things have been on me as well. However, I am pleased to say, we have sorted out a lot of these things. I am not the easiest person to be around 24/7, being that I do have mental illness (Bipolar) and ASD, as well as suspected Spina Bifida that I am currently undergoing medical testing for. Sometimes things have to fall apart to fall back together, is how I see all of this. Thank you to everyone for their advice.
  7. I'm an a-flacking T-rex!

    1. Angeni Mai

      Angeni Mai

      What the  ....? You're a nut!

       

  8. What's that smell?? It's you! You aflacked, p-u!! :P 

    I loves youuu! <3 :) 

  9. FairyBelle

    Then And Now- pics!

    First two are me as a little baby! (well, toddler... lol) Last is my most current solo selfie. Me with my teddy bear, Tim, Bob’s teddy bear from the movie “Minions” (yes, it’s odd that I was a blonde baby/toddler and now I’m a brunette adult).
  10. I am having an awesome time with my partner @Angeni Mai <3   Almost our second anniversary, and today, we are off to RedZone Adventures! I love you, darling! 

    1. Angeni Mai

      Angeni Mai

      I love you too babe! I wouldn't have it any other way. 

  11. No problem, Cheese! I'm so sorry you didn't get the good, desirable effects, and just bad silly side effects instead. I hate that. I guess medicines lose their charm so to speak, sometimes over the years, or when tried again. I hope the 600mg dose of Seroquel XR proves effective for you and works faster than expected as well. I will keep my fingers and toes crossed for you! <3 Sending you my kind and gentle thoughts and strength.
  12. Cheese, what happened to you taking Zyprexa Zydis? Did you end up discontinuing it, hun? What ended up happening?
  13. Slept through (woke up too late for) my MRI! Fml! I guess there goes that, mom did call in to say I wouldn't be coming, but still, so angry with myself! Grrrrr! *mad face*

  14. Heya Minion Buddy! Just wanted to say "Hello!" and for whatever reason, you are un-followable on here! :( *cries*

  15. @Angeni Mai

    Public service announcement! Guess what! I love you <3 

    That is all.

    1. Angeni Mai

      Angeni Mai

      PSA: I love you more! VAH!

       

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