At the end of the day its up to you weather you want to try the medication. It might help! it might not! but if don't go on medication you have to live with the consequences, I understand the fear with going on medication, but I think those fears are part of the illness and the medication is there to treat the illness, and then when you are on meds it might change your thinking. As for side effects, they are hard but its important to work with your psychiatrist so if they become to bad it can be fixed.
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