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  1. Oh man, I hate phone calls. I call my doctors before they open and ask for a time, a specific one and then when they call back I don't pick up, then they send a text and I reply to that. I hate it so much that I do it. I just wish they would implement an email system. Once I even sent my doctors a letter, by post asking for an appointment.
  2. Tell me your instagrams please!

  3. I hate vegemite with a passion. But most importantly you just want to SCRAPE some on to the toast, don't go spreading it like it's peanut butter. Some one told me the dynamite analogy, it's like dynamite you want enough to do the job, but not so much that it kills you.
  4. Good luck! Don't lose hope, just try and stay calm, no matter what it's going to be okay after this. Hope you got something nice planned for after.
  5. That is a lot of grudging. Yes sometimes, if the dreams point to them feeling a little lost or depressed they can get a tad defensive about it, but that's understandable. I'm not sure where I got it from. Unrelated but I've been to a few psychics (I have friends into it) and a few of them have told me I'm psychic (I'm not) I just get really weird / bad de ja vu a lot.
  6. I have a dream for you to interpret! Mind if I PM? Yeah go for it!
  7. This is a good idea. I play ukulele, people seem to get a kick out of that I have two webbed toes (not like fully webbed but partially) I used to find it super gross but I think it's funny now. I'm good at interpreting other people's dreams, people tell me that I help them realise their true feelings and I kinda believe it
  8. I relied to your other thread, but I read this one and I'm confused as to why you split it up! But yeah check the other one. Generally when your are talking about the same situation you keep one thread going.
  9. Sup fellow Australian. Well, it's pretty likely you're going to have to take your pants off. It will be difficult for them to do anything about it otherwise, I know it's not pleasant, but you can ask them what they are doing, what are they feeling for etc. Mine always said exactly why she was doing anything, not that I really cared for the details. But I only ever had a check up. If you don't take your pants off I don't know what happens, but really you're only disadvantaging yourself. They don't want to expose you to make you feel bad, they want to help you. This is there job, there is no need to feel embarrassed or ashamed. I suggest not tampering with the letter, they can probably tell and get hold of your records if they wanted directly (not sure just a hunch). Doctors do all kinds of silly stuff with including MI diagnoses. But if your gp is being disrespectful or you don't like them which sounds like you don't then consider a new one. You have to be the advocate for your body.
  10. Right I have returned with the promised update. Last night there was a group gathering and that kinda got out of hand with this heated debate about forgiving cheaters, and he said he could understand why it happens and a few of his friends ganged up and accused him of cheating, it was nasty stuff. I stayed for a bit after to chat, he actually bought it up. He apologised if it made me uncomfortable, I said it didn't but because I seemed to enjoy it when I was sad he wanted to keep doing it so that I would feel safe and loved but he's not romantically into me and offered to stop, he just feels safe and close to me. I said we could keep doing it, but if it got weird I was going to tell him and he agreed.It was weird for about four seconds but after that everything resumed into being easy.
  11. I will try and raise the subject next time I see him which will be on Sunday. I feel very safe and I don't feel uncomfortable. I think a large part of the problem is that I don't know how I would feel if it progressed I mean I'd mostly be curious I think but that isn't good enough reason, but at the same time I am content for things to stay the same. I really need to get a handle of my own emotions haha.
  12. thankyou sys It's never been too much, but I'm pretty certain he would let me change the subject easily if I couldn't deal with it. I just don't want to be somehow making it worse for him.
  13. Titania, He didn't make me cry for being mean or pushy it's just something I tend to do when people ask me what's wrong, I get weird when people seem interested in why I'm sad. I don't think that part was foul intentions. But it is a good point Titania. But you're right, if someone is crying then it does seem within context too offer to cuddle them. I figure that since he gaged a positive reaction from that they he probably thinks I am interested. It did seem very easy and not weird at all the affection thing, but I am clueless about cues and things. The emotional intimacy thing is right though. We seem to be very similar people and we share a lot. How can you tell if you're being used for emotional intimacy? I like being there for him and I do care a lot, I don't feel used but I really don't want to be. The crushes he has talked about has been that he has confessed to liking someone and 3/4 times the other person hasn't reciprocated which has caused a lot of depression on his behalf, the time that it has it ended quite badly. It's been identified that we both have 'saviour complexes' which I try to be aware of, but he was the one to bring it up first. Sorry to derail my own thread, but he does talk at length about trauma and I like to think I am a safe person to talk about this and this is what he says when he talks about it and that he finds it a good release, is it unusual for someone to be keen to talk about this regularly? Or is it helpful for one to talk it out to a friend?
  14. No that was not dumb it was helpful emperor, I appreciate any and all perspective and speculation on the matter I mean I think I like him, but I doubt myself all the time. I wish I knew clearly yes or no haha. Communicating does seem like a good idea. I'll try and think of a way to phrase it.
  15. Thanks, That sounds like it didn't end well at all Ov. I think I might maybe like him? But not enough that I'm entirely sure so I'm not going to say something like that. I am a touchy person. I do hug a lot, but I do not cuddle per say with anybody else when clear I'm into you / date intentions are clear. I kinda get like a bit of a weird vibe like he views me as some kind of sister or someone that needs protecting? It's kind of difficult to explain, but then again I do not know when anyone likes me ever. He does say that he loves me, all the time. The first time he said it, he said 0ranges I love you as a FRIEND, there was a lot of emphasis on friend. Now he tells me he loves me every time he sees me, and I do love him as a friend, and I have made that clear, making very sure to use the word friend. I don't know how I'd bring it up without it being really odd? Like he is touchy I've seen him be touchy with my friends, male friends included and he is a straight male but you know no where near the same degree. Any ideas on how to bring that up? I don't want to seem like I'm over -reacting over nothing?
  16. I have this friend who I really enjoy spending time with. We just understand each other extremely well, he has voiced things he has experienced that I thought I was entirely alone in but it turns out I wasn't. We spend a lot of time together, see each other maybe three times a week and we usually get dinner or something and just hang out and talk or listen to music until about 2 am or so. The thing is we are platonic friends. I don't sense any kind of flirty or I'm trying to get in your pants vibe and I talk to him all the time about his relationship problems (long story short he can't get a date and gets way too caught up in crushes). A week ago I was feeling pretty bad, just inexplicable bad, (thanks depression!) and we where talking about something not related to that and he just looked at me and was like no, we are talking about what's wrong. Then I started crying a little bit (which always sucks eww) and he started cuddling me and pulled me closer to him on the couch and then we just spent the rest of the night cuddling and he played with my hair and kissed my forehead. It was really nice and comforting, so I thought he was just trying to cheer me up so I didn't stop him, and as I said I didn't get any kind of vibe, but you know, socially clueless. Now whenever I see him he does the same things and I'm not even upset, the hand holding, cuddling, kissing forehead / cheek general type snuggles on the couch watching movies. I've never had anyone try and do that stuff without trying to do more, or you know already having gotten more. Is that abnormal? Am I getting flirted with and I don't know it? Or is it really just okay to be close and physically affectionate with your platonic friends, do you cuddle friends? I'm not complaining I really like it and I'm not uncomfortable. I just told a friend and they acted like it was weird and wrong.
  17. I forget mine all the time, I feel you on the guilt thing. I missed a few and then I started getting these automated text messages from the clinic. They are helpful. Can you ask if there is something similar?
  18. I've been thinking about this quite a lot. Mainly because in general conversation with a RL friend I mentioned that I had to go home later and skype my internet friend. Cue disbelief and general confusion on their behalf, needless to say they thought that was highly strange and a waste of time. 'But you'll never meet them'. No I might not. I would love to. But the constrains of life, ie time, money and travel mean these things may never happen. I am okay with this. My friends general consensus was that internet friends are not real friends. They make time to talk to me almost daily, despite the fact that for most of them several oceans separate us. I have never been to their houses, hugged them or known any of their friends. But I know a lot about them, they know more about me than many people know in real life. This includes you guys here. If I have had a bad day and say so I know one friend in particular who will stay up to ridiculous times to talk, the act is mutual. If I where to tell a real life friend this I might get a half hearted cheer up kid facebook message. I do not have real life friends that make this effort to talk to me. We live twenty minutes away and it may take months to co -ordinate getting coffee together. I may text you and not get a reply for another three days. I don't often have serious heart felt conversations with them. At first I thought it was a text / vs talking thing, but I've recently began video chatting my internet friends and it felt great and not weird like I imagined. I liked being able to place their face to a voice and to be able to hear them laugh. I'm aware that this is sounding weird. So yes I think they are very real. But is this just because of my introversion? Because we where able to seek each other out and find common ground despite all that is uncommon? Or they do not tire of me because we have never physically met? Is it just because I have very few quality real life friends? Do you think people sensor themselves online. I do not, and I doubt anyone I talk to regularly would have the will to hold up a facade for months / years. Has anyone been badly burnt by an internet friend?
  19. Make up could be risky. It depends on what your dress looks like, but I think something like this wouldn't be suspicious. Usually lace fabric is enough to break up how visible the scars are http://www.alibaba.com/product-gs/1587488435/Gorgeous_Ladies_Hijab_Stretch_Arm_Sleeve.html Something looks like you did it for aesthetics not because you are cold.
  20. It's a very optimistic way of thinking and I'm jealous of him for being able to believe that. I do believe that you have more than one person that you will come across in your life that will be perfect for you and you will be perfect to them. I guess if you're lucky you get to find them, but I think the point is you have to be hopeful and put yourself out into the world. It would be lovely if we could all appreciate what we once had without mourning terribly.
  21. Good points Cipher. I think I'm okay for now RE the bra thing. But if I do need to go and purchase a new one I'll keep that in mind. $70 is a lot but if it's sturdy your right it's probably a good idea. Chicken fillets at the gym? but whyyyy. I've been good and eating peanut butter (normally on something) but sometimes just straight up haha. I'm trying to drink more water I just forget and wait until I'm really thirsty, which I know means you're already dehydrated. I have no idea where to get chia seeds? Thankyou Neptune.
  22. I like being super forgettable and assumed to be of extremely low intelligence. It's really nice.

  23. Good Idea san re the bra thing, I'll do that next time I go haha
  24. Hello fellow Australian! Yes you belong here if you want to belong here. Lots of lovely people around.
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