looking for someone to talk to about self-injury in general just someone to relate to. as some of you may know people with borderline personality disorder have codependancy issues, and since my boyfriend has left for a trip to another state i have been self-injuring. my psychiatrist hasnt returned my calls about me needing medication, and i havent been able to get any counselors to call me back , since here in new jersey they are always busy and have long waiting lists. anyone have any tips in general, how to overcome urges , and how not to succeed in scaring my boyfriend off. i told him that i did it once, and he was pretty freaked out and i had to promise him i wouldnt again, even though i have been 3 days in a row now. i need to get it under control ,or i think my boyfriend will be pretty upset with me. i know i can hide it from him and just keep doing it but it feels wrong.