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So before I start, my girlfriend had a quite difficult past, she is 29(and I'm 19, but that's a different story) and she was admitted to psychiatric ward after trying to kill her mother with a hammer and causing her brain damage. The charges were dropped for diminished responsibility. According to her doctors she is schizophrenic (I think she is not). She stayed in a psychiatric ward for 7 years and she got out. We've been in a relationship for a year now and we were thinking about getting married and my friends were keep telling me not to, because of her past. I asked her to sit down with
Every time I interact with her, it feels like she's leaving me all over again, and it rips me apart. Every time. We have to see each other and interact frequently, because we have a five year old. We share custody. He's at the stage where whoever he's with is the wrong person. Every night for bed it's "I want to go home to momma" for 20 minutes, which triggers me extensively. Everyone says "he's five - that's just what they do," but they don't understand the pain it causes me. They don't understand the significance. I feel like I can't go on without her. More than half my li
Went to the therapists. I am going to start seeing her twice a week. Though next week is only once. We mostly just talked about my issues I need help with and my childhood. She is going to help me get into the world and be self sufficient. She says I have severe separation anxiety. She says when I suffered from neglect by my birth mother (Lack of mothering) that when I got adopted and did receive mothering I became co-dependant. So not only do I have AvPD from my childhood bullying but I also have severe separation anxiety from my mother (My adoptive one). But I feel relieved. This woman under
I was curious how many people have been separated from parents or someone else in your early childhood? I think it caused my BPD. It would explain a lot. I started seeing a counselor at age 10 at the recommendation of my teacher. This counselor said if I am ever diagnosed with problems my separation from my birth parents and previous neglect are most likely the cause. I am just curious if anyone else has been separated. I read it is a common history for those with BPD. In my signature is my story... revised.... very much revised. My full story is long but for anyone actually willing to read it