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Is it possible to be suicidal but not be depressed?

Like, I feel fine I just want it over though. Plus, I keep hearing the voices tell me what to do.

Im tired of living but I'm not unhappy or sad. Is it even a concern?

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1 hour ago, 100catscrazy said:

Is it possible to be suicidal but not be depressed?

Like, I feel fine I just want it over though. Plus, I keep hearing the voices tell me what to do.

Im tired of living but I'm not unhappy or sad. Is it even a concern?

I'm assuming you have a psychiatrist?.....If so, have you told your psych about what's happening and the voices?...

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The fact you have run out of meds and are off some could be the reason you are hearing these voices and having these sorts of thoughts. 

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20 hours ago, saintalto said:

The fact you have run out of meds and are off some could be the reason you are hearing these voices and having these sorts of thoughts. 

I agree.....     @100catscrazy, Have you tried to straighten out the meds issue with your pharmacy/doctor?

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I think it is reason for concern.  Depressed and sad do not always go together, I have been severely depressed and not known it because I didn't feel sad, I just didn't see the point in living.  Those situations were never good and I was  amazed at the improvement meds made when I got them right, even though I didn't realize how much it was needed until I got better.  I really think you should check in with the doctor and get everything filled.

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There are definitely times I've been very depressed but haven't felt sad. Some of those have been worse than depressions I've had when I did feel sad.

It's a concern, no question.

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