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This is so incerdibly embarrassing but I'm grasping at straws here. I'm on a long list of meds. My libido seems reduced but somewhat ok but I can't get better than a partial erection. In the past, befor being on a million meds I tried herbal stuff like yohimbe (never again), Horny goat weed (did nothing) and other combinations I don't remember. I'm afrraid of trying Cialis or Viagra due to possible interations. So, I know that doesn't leave me with many options. Has anyone tries cock rings or dermal stuff? Is there anything i could try?

My SO seems to be ok with this issue but I feel terrrible about it. There are other thigs we could do, but still...

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you could time your meds so that you are taking them as far away from when you want to have sex as possible, so there is as little of it in your system at the time as possible and you might get a better erection. i have a similar problem, only i'm female. timing my meds helps somewhat.

i didn't look at your med list, but you should run them through the med checker on aidsmeds.com and see if any of the erection-helping drugs would be bad to mix with your psych drugs. you may be able to take something. my pdoc asked me if i wanted to take something off-lable for my sexual dysfunction, and i haven't yet, but might if things don't improve soon.

from experience with an MI boyfriend, cock rings help, and he liked it, but it looked painful to me and made his penis turn colors, so i don't know how healthy they are. it did help though.

i wouldn't try any more herbals. you're better off with something FDA regulated, like cialis or viagra or something. i'm about to ask my doc for a sample of something to see if i get anything out of it.

i feel your pain and frustration and embarrassment. it is so embarrassing having to reach for the lube all the time because i can't stay wet even though i'm interested. it makes my boyfriend think i don't want him when i do. it sucks!

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sdjef,

I am in the same boat. A partial erection is the best I can maintain. I get complete erections, but only momentarily. Unfortunately, my wife "takes it personally" and doesn't want to hear about side-effects.

Tommy

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My hubby has one of those stretchy cock rings with a vibrating silver bullet attached. I think it was made by Hustler, found it in a sex shop. It is incredible. You can position it so the woman gets pleasure too. Only problem is the quick orgasms it produces. ;)

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I'm afraid of trying Cialis or Viagra due to possible interations.

I tried half of a viagra a long time ago and I didn't like it at all. I thought I was going to burst or break a blood vessel or something! It was scary. It only worked well since I was having sex for an extended period of time (like 2-3 hours [long story -- don't ask]). It's really uncontrollable. I'm not sure how cialias works because I haven't tried it, but I hear that it's supposed to work when you want it to.

Has anyone tries cock rings or dermal stuff? Is there anything i could try?

I have a cock ring. It's one of the fixed polished steel ones. They also have the ones that are adjustable and snap on. I don't much like the elastic ones. It definitely works well. I can control the erection more. I would highly recommend a cock ring. As I said there are a few different kinds, so try them out. The place I bought mine let me try them on first.

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Erectile dysfunction is a very common disorder which most men face in there life at some stage for one reason or the other like high blood pressure, diabetis, certian physical injuries, alcohol consumption, smoking, certain medications and many more. The exact reason behind your problem can only be judged by a specialist and only then one should use the medicine prescribed.

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