space_is_arched Posted July 3, 2005 Share Posted July 3, 2005 ... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
clumsycrawling Posted July 3, 2005 Share Posted July 3, 2005 What a sadistic, cowardly creep! You are definitely better off without him. If you go back, he'll just try an even more sadistic way to break up with you next time. Ooof! You definitely have my sympathy. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sulu Posted July 3, 2005 Share Posted July 3, 2005 What a creep! Reminds me of an episode of "Sex and the City" where Carrie's boyfriend breaks up with her on a post-it note. You can and will do better! We're here for you, Sulu Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Libby Posted July 3, 2005 Share Posted July 3, 2005 I've done the most damaging thing I could do and, frankly, I did it enjoying what I feel was a grim kind of satisfaction. That is pure sadism. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
olga Posted July 4, 2005 Share Posted July 4, 2005 Dear Space: I'll sing in this chorus. I don't know what your MI issues are (and it doesn't matter) but this guy has SERIOUS problems and you don't need to be around that. Love should heal: it shouldn't rip you to pieces. my opinion- olga Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
spinach pie Posted July 4, 2005 Share Posted July 4, 2005 Please tell that jerk GOODBYE!! Those rollercoaster relationships can be "fun" (in a totally fucked up sort of way), but you need and deserve so much better. Not just from a mate, but from yourself. I'm really sorry, I that crap really hurts. Been there, know the agony. It's all fun and games 'til someone puts an eye out. Now is the time to save your other eye. Thinking of you. SP Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
scarlet_faery Posted July 4, 2005 Share Posted July 4, 2005 You REALLY don't want me to put my two cents worth on this, my dear, considering how much I hate men these days. So, just listen to what everyone else said. I really do feel for you. No one wants to be lonely. No one wants to break up with someone. I hate being lonely, but I'd rather be lonely than to be with some jerk. Elizabeth Okay, so I lied, I will put my two cents worth, dump the fucker! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sulu Posted July 4, 2005 Share Posted July 4, 2005 Okay, so I lied, I will put my two cents worth, dump the fucker! <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Well put Elizabeth! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ashraf Posted July 26, 2005 Share Posted July 26, 2005 I can't believe men (or human beings!) can be so rotten! I definitely have a low opinion of men to begin with. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
amazon_42 Posted July 26, 2005 Share Posted July 26, 2005 Wow, not QUITE a record for Dumping In Bad Taste, but definatley a new low in sadistic lowlife behavior! What an *bubbles the chimp*! Total Emotional Fuckwittage. Burn anything he left behind unless its valuable, then PAWN it! Disinfect everything he touched. Wash all your sheets and clothing in salt water to get rid of the psychic stink. Then go slash his tires. Sometimes, retribution is the way to go. I guarantee you'll feel better afterward, even if you DO get arrested. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
synthetic Posted July 28, 2005 Share Posted July 28, 2005 As a man, I feel the need to stand up for my gender. But this guy is such a cliche of an asshole that I just can't do it. Fucking men. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lily Posted July 28, 2005 Share Posted July 28, 2005 [being with him was such a significant experience for me, he affected me in ways no one had ever done, and I thought that even if we could not be together, I would always have that to treasure. <{POST_SNAPBACK}> You will. Him being a fooking prick at the end doesn't have to negate every good thing you guys had. All you have to do (easy for me to say) is separate the good you had with him from the flaming car wreck he turned into at the end. Bear with me here (or go on and flame me, it's ok), I'm reading a book that talks about this. I'll try not to get all touchy-feely-new-agey on you here. This book says (you've heard this before, I'm sure) that everything that happens to us teaches us something. We all come here to learn different things, and we can't learn them just sitting around being happy, anymore than we can learn them just by having people tell us stuff (just like history repeats itself). I won't presume to know what all the bad--and good--that you had with this guy is supposed to teach you, but the fact that you are thinking back on all that good stuff says that there was some benefit there. The book also suggests that people come into our lives so we can teach each other something that we need to learn (painful, happy, whatever), and once that's been done, we move apart. So you and this guy gave each other good things, learned from one another, even his turning into a nutjob taught you something, and now you guys will move apart from each other, enriched in some way from all this. If nothing else, you've seen all you're capable of when you're in love. And don't forget about karma--he'll get his well-deserved ass-kicking for this. Awright, I hope this wasn't too treacly and annoying, and gives you something to think about with all the pain you've got now. And I hope you feel better. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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