Stars Posted July 8, 2005 Share Posted July 8, 2005 Is it betrayal to come to a DB Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
igloo Posted July 8, 2005 Share Posted July 8, 2005 My husband and I both think it's okay with doctors but he's uncomfortable with forum/friends and has said as much so I limit the amount that I share. But if I really need to talk about it-I'll share anything with the doc and 1 close friend that knows not to mention it to him or her own husband because the two guys are good friends. My husband does know that I tell her a lot more than most and we've agreed it's our compromise....I won't chat about personal relationship with anyone else out of respect for his wish but I will chat with her and she keeps it confidential. Igloo Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Erika78750 Posted July 11, 2005 Share Posted July 11, 2005 I say talk about it. I talk about my shit. I don't even care if my man comes here and sees what I have to say about him and my screen name is my real name. I think that we can learn here and this is a good thing. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SunshineOutside Posted July 11, 2005 Share Posted July 11, 2005 I'm impressed with your integrity! There have been times I never even questioned talking about my "stuff" with friends. Over the years though, I have become more conscious about it though....I think it would depend on what we're talking about. Like, am I pissed because he keeps leaving dirty dishes in the sink? Or am I pissed because he can't get it up? Big difference there. I think more and more I like to honor my significant other (and I don't have one right now so that makes this easier!!!) by trying to resolve conflicts between ourselves and when needed, a therapist. Am I being too idealist??? Rhonda Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kablume Posted July 11, 2005 Share Posted July 11, 2005 I feel like it is Ok to vent here. You can get a lot of different views and experiences. I still think you need to work it out with that person. But venting can give you an outlet while you are trying to calm down or think of what you want to say. I wouldn't let it be my only outlet. Also, you don't have to go into great detail if it is something very personal. Just my opinion though. And you know what they say about those! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SunshineOutside Posted July 11, 2005 Share Posted July 11, 2005 Journeling is a good option too. You might want to burn it afterwards though. I don't care how trustworthy he/she is. Rhonda Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MellowYellow Posted July 17, 2005 Share Posted July 17, 2005 I have been helped more by my online friends and acquaintances than anywhere. I don't think it's betrayal at all. In fact, if you really want to discuss relationships and saving your marriage, go to: http://www.divorcebusting.com and join the message boards there. It's intense, and they'll tell you to read their books, but you'll get real good help there. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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