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[Meg3593]

Well, first off my name is Megan I am 14 years old. Last year my so called boy that was my friend thought it was okay to touch me. I took me a long month to tell then when I did the stupid boy started saying really awful things to me and even told me that he was going to kill me. I kept tellilng and telling and all they would do is bring him into the princapal's office and tell him to knock it off or else. Well, else only happened once my other boy that is a friend said that he say him touching me once so he got suspened for like 3 days. But the abuse kept coming on and off. All the way till graduation which i was so excited for but soon rather then later I saw him agian. He was at my high school. He later decided to come into my room and just stalk the heck out of me. So I was off to see the new guidence depertment at this high school. I meant with the school phys for a whill she was comforting and the abuse stoped for a while and then on the 1 year anniverstry my day was going just fine in till he ran straight into me. I told the phys and she was like okay next step in thrpey is to talk to him. I was like no freak. So I am with a new counselor she is really nice. But the abuse still goes on. I got diagnosed with PSTD from the phys. and the counselor really thinks that is bad way of treatment I agree so now the only time I ever have to see her is at peer metitation.

[BjornGlitchy]

welcome!

[Greenyflower]

Hi Megan,

It sounds like you have a serious problem going on and the adults around you at school are not doing enough to protect you. You don't mention your parents. I know it can be hard to talk to them about this kind of problem, but they really need to know about this. Unfortunately, even though you're the one with the problem, your parents are the ones that the school will listen to. And, have you considered calling the police, or informing the school administration that since they are responding inadequately, you have no choice but to bring the police into the situation?

Also, read your student manual. Most people toss it into a corner and never look at it again. But it's a valuable document because it will tell you how the school authorities are supposed to discipline the boy, and what your resources are.

Here is a link to a teen site that talks about stalking and what to do about it.

You deserve better than this and I hope you can get some more people in your corner soon who can help.

[resonance]

Welcome. I am so sorry to hear that happened to you. It's especially difficult when you tell people and they don't understand that it's happening.

[Meg3593]

Hi Megan,

It sounds like you have a serious problem going on and the adults around you at school are not doing enough to protect you. You don't mention your parents. I know it can be hard to talk to them about this kind of problem, but they really need to know about this. Unfortunately, even though you're the one with the problem, your parents are the ones that the school will listen to. And, have you considered calling the police, or informing the school administration that since they are responding inadequately, you have no choice but to bring the police into the situation?

Also, read your student manual. Most people toss it into a corner and never look at it again. But it's a valuable document because it will tell you how the school authorities are supposed to discipline the boy, and what your resources are.

[link=http://teenadvice.about.com/library/weekly/aa052002a.htm" target="_blank]Here[/link] is a link to a teen site that talks about stalking and what to do about it.

You deserve better than this and I hope you can get some more people in your corner soon who can help.

I have talked to my mom about she's no help she thinks I make this all up for attention.

I have also read my student manual theres like a whole page on harazment and sexual abuse.