A.J.Overholt Posted October 9, 2010 Share Posted October 9, 2010 So I have this ex, who text and calls me alot, but only when he is super bored or upset...in fact 90% of the time he wants to call and complain about his life. I get that he has problems, we all do, but he's is normally the same old shit, and truthfully, I'm running very low on sympathy for a guy who wines far more than any girl I've ever met, Particularly with how he is impossible to joke with or anything because he is so "woe is me" He also seems to live under the impression that A) everyone else's life is soooooo much better than his and B) that people should make more time for him, when no one wants to listen to his sob stories 24/7. I got uber pissed last night when he got angry at me for not going to track down a mutual friend who was having a bad night. A,) it was after midnight, B) I had no clue where she was, and C)she and I might be friends but we're not uber close, we only talk when we run into each other or are hanging with the same group. Not to mention the fact she is extremely pivate and does not appreciate being asked about her problems unless she brings it up to you first. I told him the and he got a bitchy with me. I swear, he is a guy with permanent PMS. I'm really at the point to where I wanna tell him to just go and fuck off. He broke up with me in the first place partially due to long distance an another part because I wasn't as "emotionally open" as he was. I'm sorry, i didn't realize that dealing with some problems on my own was a bad thing, does he expect everyone to be as weak as he is? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Maddy Posted October 9, 2010 Share Posted October 9, 2010 If you don't want contact them tell him so and then don't accept contact from him anymore. Ignore calls and texts. Cut off contact. Set boundaries and keep them. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
A.J.Overholt Posted October 10, 2010 Author Share Posted October 10, 2010 Oh, I pretty much am. The problem is he also text me too, but I think I'm just gonna ignore him for a bit until he grows up. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
themadhatter Posted October 28, 2010 Share Posted October 28, 2010 I had a past relationship that was like this. The person couldn't stand on their own and it got old real fast. Now sometimes everyone needs a little help and I see nothing wrong with that hell I have been there myself. But the constant sob stories and woe is me crap gets on my neves. Sometimes people need to realize that things are not everyone elses faults or problems. ETA Sorry for the harshness of this post, I am coming down from a good rant in another thread. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kodos Posted October 28, 2010 Share Posted October 28, 2010 Well, he's either part of the new castrati or he's depressed. Give him a copy of Manthropology by Peter McAllister and see if he sacs up. P.S. You look just like Katee Sackhoff. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
withing Posted October 28, 2010 Share Posted October 28, 2010 I used to say of my crazy ex that he was the woman of the relationship. I swear he acted like a stereotypical female, right up to the "if you don't know [what's bothering him] I'm not going to tell you." I hate people like that, male or female. They are toxic for me and I now quickly excise them from my life. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Simple Milady Posted November 1, 2010 Share Posted November 1, 2010 I have been there before, so I changed my landline and mobile numbers just to get rid of him. I cannot readily move on if i am still have communication and attached with him. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Simple Milady Posted November 7, 2010 Share Posted November 7, 2010 Unless you still love him, let him know. If not, let him know also. In a way, you just need to tell him that his presence bothers you. Inform him that you too both need to move on. You two need to cut your communication so everything will be clear. It is better to have a good part ways. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
under_Reconstruction Posted January 7, 2011 Share Posted January 7, 2011 Your post is a few months old but i'll say this anyway. You need to punch him in the face. He reminds me of my ex-gf. She was ungrateful and complained about everyone and everything that she encountered. I didn't punch her in the face. But, she kinda did, to me, by breaking up with me. Lmao In the end it was all worth it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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