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Hello everyone. I´m a 35- year old guy from Finland.

My crazy -history began in late teens with depression, although I realized it only after several years. It was my primary "problem" and "nemesis" for years, I ate pills for it for over nine years. I just recently, about two months ago quit doing Cymbalta, my last depression med. The withdrawals from Cymbalta very nearly killed me, or that´s how I feel about the experience.

I feel that I have gotten pretty much over the depression, but from under it GAD has revealed itself. I feel GAD to be worse than depression, it´s more disabilitating for me at least. My only med at the moment is alprazolam, that I take when the anxiety gets too bad. I get addicted very easily,and that´s why I hate eating the alprazolam; it helps with the GAD-symptoms so well that I would like to eat it all the time...

Life feels pretty bad at the moment. Here in southern Finland it´s under six hours of daylight this time of year, which really doesn´t help. I´m trying to force myself to go to work everyday, because losing my job would be a disaster. I worry about everything; the global financial crisis, MY own (perpetual) financial crisis, my own health and that of loved ones...

I´m glad I found this forum. I´ve seen others like it, but somehow this one seems different. Better :) I hope I will get to know people here, and maybe give some advice to someone and receive some from others. Nobody else can understand a lunatic but another lunatic ;) I hate the guilty feelings I get when I do something to upset people, something that was a result of my head not working the way it should... it´s not an excuse to behaving badly,being irritated etc., but if someone doesn´t do something because they miss a leg, for example, people don´t get upset at them because they can see the reason. But if you are on a bad mood because of your mental illness, it´s usually thought that "his an asshole" or at least "irritating" or whatever...

well anyways, hello.

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Hey, welcome to CB.

I agree with you, CB is a lot better than other forums. You'll find that people don't walk on eggshells here like on other forums, and there's a tendency to say it as it is. It's very refreshing. I hope that you find the support and advice you need here.

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Welcome to our happy nuthouse. You're right---we aren't like other boards and I hope you enjoy hanging out with us.

Six hours of daylight would probably drive me around the bend. We have about 9 hours and that ain't a whole lot.

Be sure to read the rules and let us know if you have any questions. We have a blog section if you would like to write a blog for ranting and raving. :) There is also a chat room that's pretty active.

olga

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Hello! I just joined here yesterday. I like your analogy of someone having a missing leg and receiving understanding from the general public. We have invisible disabilities and many people just don't get it. I am on medicaid, medicare and food stamps. i feel sooo embarrassed when I pay with food stamps because I "look" perfectly fine. But I am not. if I was, I would still be working as an RN and have plenty of money to buy my food. I had a husband for 18 years, a tyrant. I am single now but back when we were together, he would mock me, make me cry, humiliate me. Then one time I told him that what he was doing was akin to kicking the wheelchair of someone with a visible disability. He apologized and said he had never thought of it that way. I am glad he is gone.

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