scatty Posted October 22, 2005 Share Posted October 22, 2005 I've been on risperdal for a few months now and I have no sex drive at all. When I force myself to have sex I can orgasm fine but I never seem to be in the mood to really get into it. I want to ask pdoc about wellbutrin, but I don't think it's a smart idea to start it now, as I've been having problems with mania/anxiety. Can anyone relate? Any suggestions? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bianca Posted October 26, 2005 Share Posted October 26, 2005 You really shouldn't add WB if you're having mania/anxiety. It will make it much worse. You need to get that under control first Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
scatty Posted October 26, 2005 Author Share Posted October 26, 2005 Yes I know, Bianca, thanks for replying. I just hate that my sex life is dead. I used to have sex at least 4 times a week, now NOTHING! My mania is fading away along with my libido. I lived a good part of my life in a hypomanic state and really enjoyed sex. I think if my mania stays away for a few months pdoc will add wellbutrin, he's really great at listening to my suggestions. It's a balancing act, that's for sure. Thanks again for answering my post! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bianca Posted October 26, 2005 Share Posted October 26, 2005 Anytime I really love being on these boards and helping others out. I'm hoping my pdoc today will put me on it since the little anxiety I had has disappeared. I think its a good idea for you to wait and see how you do for now. I've been waiting for 2 months to have an O with my boyfriend. I think you can wait a bit too Can you change any of the meds you're on to maybe counteract the side effect? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
scatty Posted October 27, 2005 Author Share Posted October 27, 2005 I don't think it would be wise to change my meds right now, kinda hanging on the edge of sanity at the moment. I did have sex last night, first time in a while, but it just didn't feel right! Maybe this is what sex while not manic is like?! I can't have an O to save my life. Is this why wives everywhere say "Not tonight dear, I have a headache?" Now I am turning into an asexual housewife- OH MY GOD I'M BECOMING MY MOTHER!" Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bianca Posted October 27, 2005 Share Posted October 27, 2005 Glad you got some last night. I sure didn't Let me know how it goes and I'll keep you updated. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
scatty Posted December 14, 2005 Author Share Posted December 14, 2005 Bianca, Well, doc raised my risperdal to 1 mg and added wellbutrin. I am much more horny now but haven't had sex to really test this combo out. It seems the wellbutrin is giving me more energy. How are things going for you? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Loon-A-TiK Posted December 16, 2005 Share Posted December 16, 2005 I've felt that way, like I *usually* don't really want sex until I'm having it- since I started Paxil about 5 years ago. I just tell myself that I should have sex/need to/want to, and I do, and it works itself out. I'm happy that I want sex while I'm having it and don't get weirded out about it. Anyway, it is a good sign that you can still have orgasms and want sex, even if that wanting happens in the middle of the deed! If I turned into my mother I'd be a manic lady with 5 boyfriends! hahaah Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
scatty Posted December 18, 2005 Author Share Posted December 18, 2005 I'm happy that I want sex while I'm having it <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Me too! I guess things could be worse. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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