breezy Posted June 8, 2012 Share Posted June 8, 2012 This is for llama44, who thought I was banned (who? me?) and that was the reason for my super long (okay 3 months is a long time!) absence, and for the people who have joined since my prolonged absence! Hi! I'm back (clearly). Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Eden Posted June 8, 2012 Share Posted June 8, 2012 I think I just won twenty dollars. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kittyloaf Posted June 8, 2012 Share Posted June 8, 2012 Welcome back! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mamabug Posted June 8, 2012 Share Posted June 8, 2012 Good to see you back!!!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted June 8, 2012 Share Posted June 8, 2012 I, for one, think you owe an awful lot of people an apology for the way you exited. It was manipulative. You hurt a lot of people. People that cared about you and your well being. You left them high and dry. You left them thinking that something bad had happened to you. You showed how much you cared about them by carrying on your regular postings in Facebook. I think you've got some mending to do before you come in here like nothing happened. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Vapourware Posted June 8, 2012 Share Posted June 8, 2012 I agree with syl. I think your conduct just before you left was pretty manipulative as well. We had a lot of people who were very concerned about you while you acted like nothing was wrong. I feel like you took advantage of our concern and personally - I really don't like that sort of behaviour. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
WinterRosie Posted June 8, 2012 Share Posted June 8, 2012 ^ Personally I said my bit in that thread. I think that it's worth a read, and if you want to ignore it that's up to you as well. But, as you can see, ignoring it will have its own consequences. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
llama44 Posted June 8, 2012 Share Posted June 8, 2012 I, for one, think you owe an awful lot of people an apology for the way you exited. It was manipulative. You hurt a lot of people. People that cared about you and your well being. You left them high and dry. You left them thinking that something bad had happened to you. You showed how much you cared about them by carrying on your regular postings in Facebook. I think you've got some mending to do before you come in here like nothing happened. ^This Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Indigo 'n dye Posted June 8, 2012 Share Posted June 8, 2012 I, for one, think you owe an awful lot of people an apology for the way you exited. It was manipulative. You hurt a lot of people. People that cared about you and your well being. You left them high and dry. You left them thinking that something bad had happened to you. You showed how much you cared about them by carrying on your regular postings in Facebook. I think you've got some mending to do before you come in here like nothing happened. That makes four of us. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tryp Posted June 8, 2012 Share Posted June 8, 2012 Hey Breezy - I think that people had some feelings around the way that you left and I think that you probably had a lot of emotions going on at the time as well. I am glad to hear that you are okay - I wish that I had known sooner because I did worry, but I know that this kind of thing happens with BPD. I am glad to have you back either way. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NullChamber Posted June 8, 2012 Share Posted June 8, 2012 I, for one, think you owe an awful lot of people an apology for the way you exited. It was manipulative. You hurt a lot of people. People that cared about you and your well being. You left them high and dry. You left them thinking that something bad had happened to you. You showed how much you cared about them by carrying on your regular postings in Facebook. I think you've got some mending to do before you come in here like nothing happened. and still no reply from breezy... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rowan77 Posted June 8, 2012 Share Posted June 8, 2012 I am genuinely glad to hear that you are okay, but quite honestly I would like to have known that 3 months ago as you left so suddenly after taking about giving up etc. I amongst many others, was really worried about you. However as time went on I, I heard that you were on Facebook, and yet did not bother to tell us folk on CB that you were ok, and I got really annoyed that you did not bother to tell all those people that were so concerned about you, that you were okay. Not good. However I do believe that everyone deserves a second chance so maybe you should apologise and start afresh and am sure an apology would be appreciated by everyone. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hallowedink Posted June 8, 2012 Share Posted June 8, 2012 I'm glad you're alright, but yeah, I'm another who thinks some mending needs to be done. The way you left was really not right. Many of us were worried, and you just vanished off CB without a word to anyone. It came across as very manipulative. I think that warrants an apology to the community. I believe in second chances, but you've got to earn that trust back first. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Indigo 'n dye Posted June 8, 2012 Share Posted June 8, 2012 The following was edited from OPs first returning post and moved her as requested by the mod. ...and not even a hint of an apology for the way you left four months ago. Many people were very concerned about your well-being, yet you never made an effort to drop by and tell everyone that you had not committed suicide and that you were OK. Unthinking and uncaring, but now you want folks to think about you and care about you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
scatty Posted June 8, 2012 Share Posted June 8, 2012 You reap what you sow. Personally, I recommend DBT therapy for you. I saw a lot of people being manipulated by you. If I were you, I would sure as hell make sure I apolgized to these caring folks instead of only thinking about yourself. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gearhead Posted June 10, 2012 Share Posted June 10, 2012 I think you have some explaining and apologizing to do too, Bree, but I'm glad you're all right even though I'm ticked at you. Now would be a great time to do some growing up by taking responsibility for your actions. There's still caring here for you, I think, but it's a two way street. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Recluse Posted June 12, 2012 Share Posted June 12, 2012 I think I just won twenty dollars. Recluse sighs, takes out her wallet, leafs out a $20, and hands it to Eden. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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