Cetkat Posted June 21, 2012 Share Posted June 21, 2012 After the whole eating of 1/3rd of a loaf of bread (finishing it off) and nearly whole package of bagels.. I thought the whole, "hey, don't eat my food thing" had gotten through. Apparently not. It's become less egregious, but now it's all about condiments/ingredients. And not just a little.. we're talking 1/4th of a parkay (butter) tub, and a bunch of sugar and cinnamon. She *has* sugar, and yet my stuff gets gotten into when she has company over. There was stuff left out on the counter that had been taken out to get to my sugar, it - nearly empty- on another shelf.. sugar all over that shelf. Oh, and the freezer door was left open. Thankfully I got to that before anything went bad. This, after letting her (not on her lease) cat open a tube of purple glitter and spread it all across the the common area floor. She just left it. I wake up with purple glitter all over me from walking to the kitchen and back in the dark without noticing it and getting back into bed. She never does her dishes and she puts her room trash in the kitchen trash can (or sometimes just beside it in a separate bag) and just expects me and the other roommate to take it out - THEN she bitches about us reminding her it's her turn to take it out when it's overflowing. And she's STILL SMOKING in her room! It's been about 5 months now since I first asked her to stop. Now she just smokes outside and in and feigns not knowing why the apartment smells of cigarettes and pot. I've been pretty nice about it up to this point. Not once have I yelled or gotten into an argument. I preface things with "please" and don't nag her about things. Most of the time I just suck it up and let it go. Now, I'm tired of it. I figure that if she has refused to quit the smoking after months of leniency, I'm done. At this point, I think I'm going to go to management about it, and I may just mention that there's pot involved too just so they actually do something about it. I haven't decided about that part yet. I may just say "smoking" and if they ask, I'll be honest. I'm certainly not going to lie to management about it. I've thought about giving a "final warning".. but at this point.. why? She obviously does not care about anyone but herself & thinks this place is her domain. Hate to break it to you kid, but you're not living on your own. The fact that you don't know us, we're not your little girlfriends, and there are rules to renting a room here.. well, you've been given ALOT of slack. Drugs and pets are breaking your lease. How can you be so stupid to think that you can then act like you're a special little snowflake and respond that you're going to do what you want when you want? Um.. no. I really wanted to avoid third party involvement, but I'm just fed up. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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