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Hello everyone!

My current pursuit involves my need to spread the word about an organization in the works for people with Trichotillomania or Dermatillomania- the Canadian BFRB Support Network (CBSN). It will be the 2nd non-profit organization in the world dedicated to providing support to those of us with Body-Focused Repetitive Behaviors (BFRBs) and parents/ partners of sufferers.

We are allies with the Trichotillomania Learning Center and they have been a huge help in supporting our efforts. You can become involved by joining CBSN via the links below. With such little resources available worldwide, don't hesitate to join if you're not Canadian!

www.facebook.com/CanadianBFRB

www.twitter.com/CanadianBFRB

www.canadiantrich.wordpress.com (will be changed to compliment the inclusion of all BFRB's)

Please join to bring skin pickers and hair pullers worldwide together so we can grow the BFRB community stronger, thus reducing stigma and educating the masses about our disorders. Thank you! xox

<3 Angie

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You know... It would be nice if you actually CONTRIBUTED to this community as a member instead of just coming in and dropping links.

 

You may find that as people get to know you, they are more inclined to support the things that you are trying to let people know about. 

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