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I'm Sarah and New!

I'm depressed. Crazy. Self-Harmer. Borderline. Trainee- Nurse :P

If you want to chat or help me get started then you are AWESOME :)

 

So fav coulour: Purple

Into Rock! ^_^

 

Talk to me!!!!!!! :D xxxx

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Hey dragon, hope u r enjoying this site already.  Looking forward to more chats and to reading your posts.   Take care of yourself and rock on, oh little one. 

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Welcome to Crazyboards.  I ask new members to read the rules, just to avoid misunderstandings later on.  If you have already read them, disregard the last sentence.

 

Let us know if we can help you in any way.

 

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