Schizophrenic_Sanity Posted March 3, 2014 Share Posted March 3, 2014 I just had to kick someone out of my life because she had become toxic to me(I don't want to go into all the details). I told her this in a very gentle way. Now she's going around accusing me of "lying to get attention" and all kinds of horrible stuff. She was verbally abusive when I cut it off and I'm just overwhelmed. What kills me is that I didn't even DO anything to warrant this kind of treatment. The fact that she's saying all this stuff just further validates that I did the right thing but, god... I feel horrible. i really feel horrible. I don't know what to do. I'm thinking of SI'ing again even though I know that won't fix anything. I'm just so sick of this. I was NOTHING but nice and kind to her and now she's throwing this shit around at me. I can't believe it. This is what I get for trying to be a good person. I hate people. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
olga Posted March 3, 2014 Share Posted March 3, 2014 The people who really know you and value you will realize that this person is lying. The people who believe her obviously aren't your true friends, so it's good to find out now that they aren't loyal to you. Let the dogs bark: your caravan moves on. olga Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mellifluous Posted March 3, 2014 Share Posted March 3, 2014 i want so much to say something that helps you feel less horrible and betrayed by the idea that if you act respectably and address someone honestly then you will reap what you sow. but i do get that it's hard not to feel disgruntled when your best efforts to resolve compassionately result in being attacked mercilessly. so posting to say i'm reading and i hear you and am simply gutted for you doing everything you can to find stability and authenticity in a world that appears populated by the cruel and disingenuous far, far too often. if there's anything that i can give that would help in any way, you know how to find me. x Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Schizophrenic_Sanity Posted March 3, 2014 Author Share Posted March 3, 2014 Thank you both. olga, yeah you're right. This person has no credibility anyways. melli, thank you as always for being so supportive my friend. x Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
olga Posted March 3, 2014 Share Posted March 3, 2014 Don't let the barstards get you down. You always have friends here, and I'm sure you have friends IRL who support you. olga Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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