Guest Posted October 6, 2014 Share Posted October 6, 2014 (edited) About a year ago we had a camp for a support group I go to. We were sleeping in bunk beds in cabins. Anyway I was on the top bunk. The first night I seperated from the group and went to bed early. I was half asleep in my sleeping bag on the top bunk with my bum sticking out when I could feel someone pulling or unzipping(edit) my sleeping bag.I woke up and turned around and I saw one of my fellow campers and he said something like "you should zip up ur sleeping bag coz it's cold". The next morning he looked guilty as shit. I tried to report it but they just laughed it off and said he must of been joking? What do u guys think? Edited October 6, 2014 by happy2beyoung Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nonuser Posted October 6, 2014 Share Posted October 6, 2014 If your butt was sticking out then the guy might have been just trying to keep you warm.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
madmax15 Posted October 6, 2014 Share Posted October 6, 2014 Hmmm the look on his face the next day was of guilt. I'm not really sure on this one... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Forstyrra Posted October 6, 2014 Share Posted October 6, 2014 He was probably just trying to keep you warm, i think you might be misinterpreting this one. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
madmax15 Posted October 6, 2014 Share Posted October 6, 2014 Thanks for the responses. I was FREAKED OUT. he actually climbed up to my top bunk. IDK what the hell he was doing! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sync Posted October 6, 2014 Share Posted October 6, 2014 I don't think we can know for sure if you were going to be sexually assaulted. It's possible, but it's also possible he had altruistic intentions.  However, I'm going to disagree with the other folks here. I think his behavior sounds very inappropriate. You do not touch people you don't know very well when they're sleeping. You especially do not do so if you are a male person and they are a female person. It is not his prerogative to decide whether your sleeping temperature is appropriate. I would not be okay with that at all, if it were me. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
madmax15 Posted October 6, 2014 Share Posted October 6, 2014 (edited) I'm a MALE.. Edited October 6, 2014 by happy2beyoung Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sync Posted October 6, 2014 Share Posted October 6, 2014 Oh, hah. I have no idea why I thought you were female. My apologies! Â Yeah, no. Totally inappropriate anyway, imo. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
madmax15 Posted October 6, 2014 Share Posted October 6, 2014 (edited) OMG Actually I might of been? The look on his face the next day. Maybe he did whatever and thought I wouldn't wake up? but I DID!! Edited October 6, 2014 by happy2beyoung Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
revolution724 Posted October 6, 2014 Share Posted October 6, 2014 That's creepy. I don't blame you for feeling uncomfortable. He may or may not have had any ill intentions but he definitely overstepped personal boundaries. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cady Posted October 6, 2014 Share Posted October 6, 2014 I'm not sure, why not wake you up and tell you, or just leave you, rather then zip it up?. Â Could be completely innocent. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
crtclms Posted October 6, 2014 Share Posted October 6, 2014 That's creepy. I don't blame you for feeling uncomfortable. He may or may not have had any ill intentions but he definitely overstepped personal boundaries. This is my opinion, so I won't type it out. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted October 7, 2014 Share Posted October 7, 2014 Sorry guys I just remembered a more accurate story than the one I originally gave. I was in the sleeping bag already unzipped but I tucked it in at the sides with my bum facing towards the little ladder you climb up. That night I could feel someone trying to untuck the sleeping bag. I wake up and turned around and he says something about it being too cold or something. Next morning he looked really guilty. A year or so later I saw him at a seminar by unlucky coincidence and when he saw me he STILL had that look of guilt. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MellyDonut Posted October 7, 2014 Share Posted October 7, 2014 Of course we will never know his actual intentions. Sounds to me like he might have honestly been trying to keep you warm. He might have looked guilty because he was embarrassed. I know I would be if touched someones butt. But, Idk, I prefer to try to give people the benefit of the doubt. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted October 7, 2014 Share Posted October 7, 2014 (edited) Of course we will never know his actual intentions. Sounds to me like he might have honestly been trying to keep you warm. He might have looked guilty because he was embarrassed. I know I would be if touched someones butt. But, Idk, I prefer to try to give people the benefit of the doubt. Thanks for the quick reply. I will never know his true intentions either. BUT the sleeping bag was ALREADY tucked in...? Edited October 7, 2014 by happy2beyoung Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
WinterRosie Posted October 7, 2014 Share Posted October 7, 2014 In my experience it's really easy to get obsessive over ambiguous situations like this. Because we won't ever know the answer I'd invite you to learn how to live with the ambiguity of "it could have been this. Or it could have been that." Do you know how to do that? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gearhead Posted October 7, 2014 Share Posted October 7, 2014 We'll never know for sure, but he obviously went beyond your personal limits of comfort and bodily space. Do you have a tdoc you can talk to about this? Do you need to talk about it? You're safe now. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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