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I have a dark, defeatists attitude.  I will migrate to the negative view.  I rarely can or will hold on to positive things, I miss out on life's joys and pleasures as I have been in the pit for so long

So, my therapist has asked me on a daily basis to come up with 3 positive affimations.  I have expanded it a bit to include things I am grateful for as well. 

I started to list my three things in my blog, probably still will.  I have found it difficult but really rewarding.  Really really rewarding.  I have to think hard some days and others they flow.

I want to hear your three things.  I want to pass on the change that I have been given from what seems a simple task.

So I will go first:

1) summer is here

2) I love the color green and am surrounded by it.

3) I get joy out of coloring, makes me feel better and distracts me when I need distracting.

 

Okay so what are your three things?

 

 

 

 

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Good idea. Could be useful for me too; I don't exactly have the highest self esteem known to man.

1: I'm making steps to change my life

2: Eating more and enjoying it

3: I don't have any flus!

 

A little more difficult than I thought.

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I had time to have a leisurely morning

My daughter is making me a friendship bracelet

My husband likes to make me happy

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we had  more energy than usual this morning!

the Lovely Sheets are on the bed

we are enjoying lavender and rose geranium smells

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1.  I have a roof over my head and love where I live.

2.  I have food to eat.

3.  My pdoc is a blessing.

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I've done this too and still do it when everything is dark. I called it 'forcing positivity'. Tdoc said 'a change of perspective'.

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I've done this too and still do it when everything is dark. I called it 'forcing positivity'. Tdoc said 'a change of perspective'.

​We all deserve to give ourselves some positivity from time to time. We're all too hard on ourselves.

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instead of my blog, I am gonna list my three here everyday:

I am learning how to show emotion

I am learning self monitoring, so I can do what I need to do to take care of myself

I am trying to be more social

go Hawks

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Love this idea!

1. last final/class this morning

2. really good blueberries this morning

3. last week's low mood: POOF! I'm feeling great this morning.

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I am slowly beginning to clean my own home. 

I can feel my every day emotions returning after years of being apathetic due to C-PTSD.

I am learning to apologise for my inappropriate outbursts and possibly hurting others feelings.

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I get to go pick fresh strawberries next week.

 

 I  have been doing watercolor again after years and it helps me express myself.

 

Books. Always books.

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Having the kids home for the summer - no morning struggles.

Having the windows open, I love the breezes and the birds.

Having a 28yo daughter who is taking my teenagers off my hands for a week - priceless

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Having the kids home for the summer - no morning struggles.

Having the windows open, I love the breezes and the birds.

Having a 28yo daughter who is taking my teenagers off my hands for a week - priceless

​That is a blessing ... I'm glad you will have some time to yourself :)

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I have a dark, defeatists attitude.  I will migrate to the negative view.  I rarely can or will hold on to positive things, I miss out on life's joys and pleasures as I have been in the pit for so long

So, my therapist has asked me on a daily basis to come up with 3 positive affimations.  I have expanded it a bit to include things I am grateful for as well. 

I started to list my three things in my blog, probably still will.  I have found it difficult but really rewarding.  Really really rewarding.  I have to think hard some days and others they flow.

​this is a great idea, dragonfly.  used to do this in therapy. let it go. should try it again, as i default to the negative, pessimistic and would probably benefit from forcing my mind more to good things and to gratitude.  today as usual i woke up wishing i was dead. this will be a challenge.

1.) i am caring for myself by eating better

2.) grateful for the cat and wildlife out the window

3.) reaching out, not isolating

 

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cats! everywhere, there are cats! (heh)

hibiscus tea: wonderful colour and great taste for summer weather

pride, prejudice and zombies 

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Having ready access to potable running water

Having electricity

Having the money to maintain these indefinately

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My mood might be on the upswing. 

I have a great picture of my dog smiling and I made it the lock screen picture in my phone so I am constantly reminded I'm loved. 

I actually cooked dinner last night. 

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Strawberries and ice cream

I'm done with classes and got great grades

kinda gross but I had a boil in my ear that finally popped and it hurts SO much less now

It's the little things...

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Clean hair.

The time my pdoc spends with me.

Popsicles.

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pride, prejudice and zombies 

Hell to the yes. Did you read Sense, Sensibility, and Sea Monsters?

I love my husband.

Though aged, my dogs are both healthy.

My best friend is getting better. Most days, she's OK.

 

 

 

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