madmax15 Posted October 30, 2016 Share Posted October 30, 2016 I'm in a circle of friends and time and time again I find out their doing things together without inviting me. Parties ect. What sort of friends are they?! Friends suck! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Right Honourable Jimmy Posted October 30, 2016 Share Posted October 30, 2016 Sometimes friends do things without you. If they never invite you though to things though fuck em Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
melissaw72 Posted October 30, 2016 Share Posted October 30, 2016 Have you ever asked them why? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
crtclms Posted November 3, 2016 Share Posted November 3, 2016 Friends don't have to include you every time they wish to meet. Sorry. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wats Posted November 8, 2016 Share Posted November 8, 2016 Well if parties is the only thing that is connecting you with friends than you should reconsider how strong the friendships are. All friendships are based on something, and that something is the variable that defines the strenght of friendship. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
madmax15 Posted November 15, 2016 Author Share Posted November 15, 2016 Sorry I didn't explain properly. I actually didn't use Facebook for a long time. I got bored one day and logged on and I saw all these things my so called friends were doing together for like a year! while NEVER inviting me. I'm thinking WTF. Did I do something wrong or something? Man that looks really bad... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wats Posted November 15, 2016 Share Posted November 15, 2016 Also i only have like 2 friends, quality over quantity. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
melissaw72 Posted November 15, 2016 Share Posted November 15, 2016 3 hours ago, madmax15 said: I saw all these things my so called friends were doing together for like a year! while NEVER inviting me. I'm thinking WTF. Did I do something wrong or something? Did you ask them if there was a reason you weren't asked to join them? Could you ask them if you did something wrong? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
madmax15 Posted November 15, 2016 Author Share Posted November 15, 2016 I actually wanted to see what you guys think of this situation? Is it nothing but conjecture? Maybe it doesn't mean anything? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jt07 Posted November 16, 2016 Share Posted November 16, 2016 Perhaps they invited you through Facebook but since you weren't on Facebook, you didn't get notice of the get-togethers? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
madmax15 Posted November 16, 2016 Author Share Posted November 16, 2016 They had my mobile number... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
inabook Posted November 16, 2016 Share Posted November 16, 2016 It happened to me (a few years ago) several times, because they were indeed organizing things on facebook and just forgot that not everyone is on facebook. I ended up joining fb, and it solved the issue. (They had my phone number). I am not sure it is the case for you, but that's how it went for me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
madmax15 Posted November 16, 2016 Author Share Posted November 16, 2016 But they're still doing it now and I'm on Facebook?! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
inabook Posted November 16, 2016 Share Posted November 16, 2016 I'd probably feel hurt too, or at least it would be my first reaction. As the others said, however, it may be worth talking about it with them, but it may be a sign that they are not great friends for you. I would probably want to potentially not be too close to people like that? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
toast Posted November 16, 2016 Share Posted November 16, 2016 (edited) t Edited April 17, 2017 by toast Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Royo Posted November 16, 2016 Share Posted November 16, 2016 I am in a similar sport as you. You should talk about it. That is probably the best thing you can do and I will do it aswell. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jt07 Posted November 16, 2016 Share Posted November 16, 2016 Well madmax, at this point, I would be asking myself why I consider them friends. Maybe they consider you a lesser friend or an acquaintance, and therefore not part of their "circle". I'm just guessing here because you haven't given us much to go on. I would ask them directly why they are leaving you out. Better to find out the truth than to always be wondering why. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
madmax15 Posted December 27, 2016 Author Share Posted December 27, 2016 I finally had the guts to ask them and they said it was spontaneous and wasn't planned. That still doesn't make sense?! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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