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Feeling Like I'm Not Enough for Fiance?

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Been awhile since I been here, a lot has happened in the last few months.

I got engaged, my fiance was in jail for 2.5 mo, and it sucked.

Now, he's back. We fought the first three days or so, cause we hadn't been around one another. Fighting's died down, but my jealousy issues are back and fucking kicking.

Lovely, I know. Even with his checking out other woman or liking porn at times.

I get a fear when we get married he'll find someone prettier and better, and leave me. Do I think he'll ever cheat? No. Leave? Maybe.

He says he loves me will never leave, unless I do something insane i.e. stab him, shoot him, cause bodily harm, etc .

He also referred to my jealousy as me being crazy.

I've not been stable taking my meds, again. For awhile now.....or gone to counseling in awhile. Him being in jail kinda threw us off entirely.

We've got our first pre-marital counseling session with my therapist (who's actually an LMC) next week. We used to go to sessions together, too. But I want our marriage to work, and he seems like he does, or says so.

We currently aren't living together, either. He lives a couple blocks from me. A friend of his who's never liked me, doesn't like me being over. Won't say why. My dad doesn't like him being here, I moved back home.

I just hope my jealousy issues go down, that I believe he cares. My dad doesnt like us being together, claims my fiance has no ambition. He has been out of jail maybe two weeks now, and just got his job back. Starts Sunday, my dad worries he won't be able to take care of me.....

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If you want your marriage to last then I think you really, really, really need to work on your jealousy. He might be ok with it now, but that stuff gets old fast. I think that should be your first priority.

I can't say anything about your father or his friend. The important thing is that the two of you want to be together. 

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