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So i have a female best friend, im a man and we are the best friends of all time, she really helped me trough my depression and addictions. There are no more than a friendship, we already talked about it and we date other people. The problem arise when my parents, very religious, start to say that i spend to much time whit her, but we really just do the normal friend things, she come to my home, we eat, we hang out, etc. We see everyday because of college.

It obsesses me that my parents annoy me whit their shit that i will end just having sex whit her, or that she just want that, we had the opportunity before and we choosed to not, and even if that happens cant just let me alone?.

Im all day thinking that they are against me, also they annoy me and its hell.

Can someone give me advice?

Thanks in advance.

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Hello, yes i have responded to them, i have told them that we are only friends, i try to invent excuses so she cant go to my home, as far as ive done they like her but they thing i will end up having sex whit her, which it would have happened before but it doesnt annoy me if it happens, after all we are adults now.

The problem is that they are very religious and i dont share their religion. 

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