devon00 Posted March 10, 2006 Share Posted March 10, 2006 So, I was befriended by this guy at my new job who really wanted to go out with me. He asked me out and would always told me how "cool" "nice" and "pretty" I am, etc. He would basically always flatter me and call me and ask to have lunch with me. Unfortunately, he wasn't my type so I made it clear to him that I would *love* to be his friend but that I "wasn't looking for a boyfriend at this time." Long story short, we became friends. We'd talk about twice a week and we'd actually pick each other's minds about the opposite sex, etc. He'd ask me for advice about talking to girls and I was happy to give it, and I'd tell him about guys I'd met. It seemed that we really were just starting to develop a real friendship--and I don't have any close friends who are guys. Anyway, he started dating someone and now I never hear from him!!! The paranoid person in me wonders if I've offended him or he's suddenly decideded I'm no longer "cool" or worth his time. Or...is it normal for friends to disappear when they are dating someone new? (And is it normal for other friends to just disappear sometimes for no reason?) How should I approach things? It's just such a big difference to go from 2 calls per week to none. What's the deal? Should I just assume that it's not "me" but that he's in love? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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