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5 years ago today my little brother died. He was 28. I miss him a lot and am sad. But I am ok. It still hurts a lot though. I think of him still most days even though it has been 5 years. I really really miss him. I have to stop or I’ll start crying again. And I just did my makeup for once and I don’t want to ruin it. Silly I know. 

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24 minutes ago, Wonderful.Cheese said:

5 years ago today my little brother died. He was 28. I miss him a lot and am sad. But I am ok. It still hurts a lot though. I think of him still most days even though it has been 5 years. I really really miss him. I have to stop or I’ll start crying again. And I just did my makeup for once and I don’t want to ruin it. Silly I know. 

I can relate with you on this one.......My mom passed away almost 4 yrs ago, and I am still grieving for her.......She was 80 when she passed......She was a wonderful mom, and I still miss her so much....Sometimes I even want to call her on the phone, and realize I can't, because she's gone.

It is okay to still grieve for your brother....Grief has no time limit....It is okay to cry, too....

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I'm sorry for your loss, Cheese. 

 

How have you worked with your grief? 3 years ago my dad died and I still haven't processed it. I think our MI issues end up getting in the way sometimes. 

 

Let yourself cry and feel your feelings, though. Loss is never easy, especially someone so close. 

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I'm sorry, Cheese.  In my experience, anniversaries are particularly hard,  even if I think about the people I've lost all the time.   I agree that grief has no time limit.

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I'm so sorry, Cheese. I think that nobody really gets over loss. The intense pain may become duller and more remote, but you always have a hole in your heart. I wish you the best on and around this anniversary and hope that you can embrace all the positives your brother brought into your life.

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I’m sorry I’m a bit late, but I’m sorry that such a hard anniversary happened...not that isn’t already painful on non-anniversaries.  Thinking of you.

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On 4/23/2019 at 11:31 AM, Wonderful.Cheese said:

5 years ago today my little brother died. He was 28. I miss him a lot and am sad. But I am ok. It still hurts a lot though. I think of him still most days even though it has been 5 years. I really really miss him. I have to stop or I’ll start crying again. And I just did my makeup for once and I don’t want to ruin it. Silly I know. 

Not silly. I'm sorry about your brother. Grief is really hard to get past.

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Thanks for the support and I’m sorry for you guys who are also grieving. Very sad. :(

I appreciate your comments though and that makes me feel less alone in all this. Thank you. 

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